
One of the most common mistakes men make during sex is that
they think we all like heavy thrusting- The reality is that this is only
stimulating for one of the people in the act and that’s men. Heavy thrusting is
fun for a little bit but to truly achieve an orgasm a woman needs a lot more
than just someone pushing their pelvis into us over and over. In fact, it
actually doesn’t do much for us in the way of stimulation. Here are some more
ways you can please a woman that I learned through my exploration and tantric
massages:
This might be a repeat of a million articles but women love
their clit. Seriously, it’s our version of a penis! It’s much more sensitive
than the vaginal walls (remember, we do have to push babies out of there so
sometimes not feeling a lot is a good thing). So please, next time you are
pleasing a woman either remember the clit or give her some space to play with
it.
It’s important to switch it up when it comes to thrusting.
During tantric sessions I realized that slow and deep is actually what makes
women arc their back. There should be a ration of three to six shallow and
quick thrusts and then one long a deep penetrate one. But this is sex, not
dancing or math… There is no need to count. The important thing to remember is
that we like it slow and deep, not fast. Fast only serves to pleasure you and
while we may like that also pleasuring us is part of the contract we enter when
we decide to sleep together.
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