Learn To Please Women Through Tantric Massage

Because there is so much misinformation about sex out there it almost seems like 99% of the time we don’t know what we’re doing. Something we’ve been doing since the dawn of man has suddenly become a mystery to all of us as a species. Or at least to most of us… as someone who has a great deal of curiosity I set out on a self-exploration of my body. I decided to throw caustion to the wind and allow myself to explore and tend to my needs as a woman. In part this meant I was going to learn to masturbate but other than that I enrolled in a sex class and also booked a couple of convenient tantric massages right here in London and this is what I learned:

One of the most common mistakes men make during sex is that they think we all like heavy thrusting- The reality is that this is only stimulating for one of the people in the act and that’s men. Heavy thrusting is fun for a little bit but to truly achieve an orgasm a woman needs a lot more than just someone pushing their pelvis into us over and over. In fact, it actually doesn’t do much for us in the way of stimulation. Here are some more ways you can please a woman that I learned through my exploration and tantric massages:

This might be a repeat of a million articles but women love their clit. Seriously, it’s our version of a penis! It’s much more sensitive than the vaginal walls (remember, we do have to push babies out of there so sometimes not feeling a lot is a good thing). So please, next time you are pleasing a woman either remember the clit or give her some space to play with it.

It’s important to switch it up when it comes to thrusting. During tantric sessions I realized that slow and deep is actually what makes women arc their back. There should be a ration of three to six shallow and quick thrusts and then one long a deep penetrate one. But this is sex, not dancing or math… There is no need to count. The important thing to remember is that we like it slow and deep, not fast. Fast only serves to pleasure you and while we may like that also pleasuring us is part of the contract we enter when we decide to sleep together.

If you want to learn more about how to please yourself and a woman at the same time I highly recommend London Tantric. There you’ll receive amazing massages and learn more about your own body and the body of those you might be intimate with.